How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days: The Secret Guide to Getting Him Out of Your Life
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Regarding love, men and women are not on the same page. While women want a nice, sensitive, and supportive guy, men are more likely to be attracted to women they can impress with their appearance and flashy lifestyle. This means that sometimes to get a guy to like you and not run away screaming, you’ll have to give him the impression that you’re not interested. Fortunately, this isn’t as hard as it sounds. Here are some tips on how to lose a guy in 10 days if he’s giving you the icky vibes.
Lay off the flirting.
For starters, you should cut out all the flirting. Even if you don’t want the guy to think you’re interested in him, you don’t want him to get the wrong idea. Flirting usually comes hand-in-hand with a sexy or suggestive demeanor. This can be great if you want to date the guy, but if you don’t, it can give him the wrong idea. For example, if you typically wear short skirts and low-cut tops, you might want to rethink your wardrobe. You don’t want to come off as emotionally aggressive when trying to appear disinterested.
Don’t be too available.
If the guy you like is always trying to hang out with you, become his best friend, and take advantage of your “single and ready to mingle” status, you’ll have to step away from the social scene for a while. Saying “no” to a guy who is interested in you can be tough, but it’s something you’ll have to do in order to make him keep pursuing you. If you’re constantly taking time out of your day to hang out with the guy and attend social events, he’ll start to think you’re desperate to be in a relationship. You don’t want that, so back off. If he asks to hang out with you, make up some excuse as to why you can’t go. You can tell him that you have a lot going on, you have to study, or any other excuse that might work. Avoid saying “no.” If he’s persistent, tell him that you’re not interested in dating him and want to keep things as friends.
Have a “no-dating” rule for the month.
If you’ve been seeing this guy for a while, you might want to consider having a “no-dating” rule for the month. This means that neither of you will be allowed to go on any romantic dates (no cuddling or hand-holding either). This is a good idea if you’ve been seeing each other for a couple of weeks, but you don’t want him to think you’re just not interested. You can tell him that you want to wait to date until you know that both of you really like each other and are serious about the relationship. If a month goes by and neither of you want to end the “no-dating” rule, it will prove that you’re both serious about the other person.
Don’t give up your independence.
It’s normal for guys to want to feel like they’re protecting you, but you have to be careful not to let this get out of control. If he’s always following you around and checking up on you, it will drive you crazy. You don’t want to feel like you can’t go out with your friends or do things on your own when you’re in a relationship. If this is a problem, you have to address it right away. Don’t let him think that his controlling behavior is normal and that you like it. Talk to him about your desire to have some independence, and explain that you’re not trying to say he’s not a good guy – you just want to be able to do what you want when you want.
When it comes to love, men and women are definitely not on the same page. While women want a guy who is nice, sensitive, and supportive, men are more likely to be attracted to women they can impress with their appearance and flashy lifestyle. This means that sometimes in order to get a guy to like you and not run away screaming, you’ll have to give him the impression that you’re not interested. Luckily, this isn’t as hard as it sounds. All you have to do is lay off the flirting, don’t be too available, have a “no-dating” rule for the month, and don’t give up your independence.